But thinking of the children I could not live with myself to do that. You;ll get the answer you needвprayers and blessings for you both. Yes, talk talk talk about everything yoiu can think of, but beyond that I would suggest pre-marital counseling from people knowledgeable in each tradition at play this will probably take two different counselors, who might be faith-based. Should I bare the pain of being separated from him Which will hurt a lotor do I carry on hoping one day it gets better.




There is NO guarantee that marrying a returned missionary RM in the temple equates with love and happiness. Finally, the decision of whom you marry is really between you and God. It is important especially when you have children to make time for your partner regardless of his job. I volunteer every week, I put others before myself, etc. Thanks for letting us know. Are you going to keep the sabbath holy as a family, or is he going to take the kids out for pizza after church, leaving you home to observe alone. Or when I get up at 5: So far I have not brought up any of this with him because I'm trying to offer all of that support and space you mentioned and I wanted to give him the chance to do it himself.
Physical and logistic issues make the "wonderful ideas and alternative ideas "impossible. If you are a believer and are willing to go, then well and good. We make time for each other every chance we get which sometimes is during the noon hour for lunch.
The pressure is mounting for Mormon women to cave in to Western degeneracy, and men are at a loss for what to do about it. Another simple and doable option is to go online; there are many LDS dating sites where you can sign up and meet new and interesting people. Chances are you can't though. It hurts me the most when my kids ask me why they haven't see daddy in days. What if you are sexually incompatible. I'm always torn between wanting to spend time together doing loads of fun things and giving him space to pursue his dream. There are a great many beliefs I can't condone but most of them are along the lines of gender stereotyping, and how you apply that to your own life obviously varies by individual.